Love Tag! :)

1. โ€I Love Youโ€ When and to whom did you express your love? I believe I should have expressed my first love to my mom, but I really do not remember when was the start ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

2. Parent you love the most? Isnโ€™t that obvious from the 1st question?? I love my momma!! ๐Ÿ™‚

3. Child you love the most? Am not a mom yet! But I believe Iโ€™ll love my children equally ๐Ÿ™‚

4. Brother you love the most? I have a big list of brothers whom I love ๐Ÿ˜ฆ really hard to give one name for this question. Well here goes the list.. Hari, Cletus, Rajeev, Chuch, Vijay, Suresh, Sajjeev, Kasthuri.. ( There is no priority meant with the order, love you all equally!)

5. Sister you love the most? Vaishna! ๐Ÿ™‚ only little one..

6. Female friend you love the most? Well here again it is a big list! But there is always a little more when its Sound! Love you sound..

7. Male friend you love the most? Male friend? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ *Thinking if I have any one, who doesnโ€™t fall in my brotherโ€™s list* Well Senthil and Prassath

8. Are you in love? If so with whom? I love you all! ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜›

9. One activity that you love doing? Only one? Watching Surya!!!!!! ๐Ÿ˜›

10. One thing that you love? I love my mobile, laptop and my bike equally!

11. Do you love your neighbours? If โ€œyesโ€ whom do you love the most? I love all my neighbours, โ€˜cos I was the first kid here in my street almost everyone had treated me with equall care and affection for years now.. And now at this point of time, one of my neighbours whom I love the most is Puja ๐Ÿ™‚ she is a sweet little kid 1 yr and 6 months old she deserves a post, thatโ€™ll be published soon ๐Ÿ™‚

12. Do you love reading? If โ€œyesโ€ Whose writing do you love the most? I love reading sheldonโ€™s.. Love him not only as a writer but also as a human, after reading โ€œOther side of meโ€..

13. Do you love pets? If โ€œyesโ€ do you own one? I love doggies.. Yeah Tinku is my sweet little one..

14. Do you love watching movies? The last movie, you loved watching? A big YES!! I love movies specially when its Surya.. The last movie I enjoyed? Ayan, Obviously!

15. Do you love dating? When was your last date and with whom? Abacharam abacharam!! ๐Ÿ˜›

16. One line that you love to pass on to your friends and family? I Love you all!!!!!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

17. One line that you love to hear? Love you..

18. The blog that you love reading?

If you ever wonder about my writing after reading the long long posts, see where my inspiration had come from http://revsjoiedevivre.wordpress.com/ , i love reading thw writings of the little growing writer ๐Ÿ™‚ http://kumsk.blogspot.com, i love reading the crazy technological writing at http://arvindkunday.wordpress.com/, i love reading love at http://youaremyprincess.weebly.com/ and finally the TAMIL writings at http://catchyazh.blogspot.com/

19. Pass the tag on to 3 bloggers you love the most..

All of you writers mentioned above can take it up ๐Ÿ™‚ love you all! :)..

20. I love you โ€ฆโ€ฆ.. (Fill in only one name)

only one???!!! *thinking* I love you blog! ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜›


My brother Rajeev, You should have known him through Mr.Marine engineer post in the blogspot or through the comments in this blog. Well his actual birthday is on december 28th. Every year his birthday comes either in ship or in some part of the world, andย  the worst thing is that when he is in ship we can not even make a call toย  wish him. He’ll call people only when he sees some soil. And this year around 8 PM (IST) there came a call from him. I was all happy happy hearing him and wished him. But there was a lil dull voice on the other side saying “It was yet another day for me abi. Nothing special. None in the ship knew that it was my birthday except one of my friend”. I was disappointed, poor guy! Always something or the other makes him feel lonely, and we miss you too Rajeev be it any get-together. I then promised him that when he’s in land that is in May, I’ll gather our friends and celebrate his birthday!!

I thought i’ll make it up on May 28th. But only by friday (May 22nd) he told me that he’ll be occupied with things after 25th. So the only possible day was today 24th May, since i needed atleast one day in between to get things and people ready. With all my anxiety, curiosity or Whatever, I sent an sms to a couple of my friends asking if we can make it up on sunday and i got a positive reply ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ :).. I was the only girl from our set, left in coimbatore so i asked Cletus and Chuch to get it confirmed from the rest of the guys of our gang. I spoke to Abdul (Rajeev’s friend from another school whom only i knew!) and he happily gave an ‘Yes’ too :).. So People were ready! So what do we do next??

On saturday evening after getting things confirmed, i messaged Abdul saying we both will go get things ready for tomorrow. Like how most of the boys reply, there came one ‘What do you want to do now? What to get? I donot understand..’ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ sshhh!! Then there went on an explanatory session, saying we’ll have to go order for the cake, get a card and go out looking for a gift. Somehow he made up his mind and he was like ‘Ok.. I’ll come.. Tell me where we’ll meet up’.. I told him the place and got ready. .Before i even got ready he was there waiting for me.. Velila vandhu paatha!! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ ๐Ÿ˜ฆ My wonderful dad left my bike key in the box and locked it ๐Ÿ˜ฆ i neither had a spare key! And i wasnt ready to travel with him too.. Before typing an sms to Abdul about the idiotic things happening at home, there was an sms from him saying ‘i’m not able to stand here in mosquito bite please come soon’.. huh! I told myself, ‘Girl you are going to get kicked’ and smsed him explaining him wat had happened.. ‘that’s ok.. wat else can i say?’ this is what he sent after all my long long sorry sms’s. Well thank God he didnot go mad or yell at me ๐Ÿ˜‰ 5 mins after i told Abdul to go back home i got my key out of my vehicle box ๐Ÿ˜ฎ (should i name it ‘luck’ ? :o) now if i call him again, i was pretty sure about the kicks. With a little disappointment and much of hope that i have ample time tomorrow morning, because we are meeting up only at 12 , i made up my mind, had my routines done and went to bed.

As usual it was around ten when i got out of my bed today morning!! ๐Ÿ˜€ Oh God! just 2 more hours in hand?? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ I called up Cletus, told him that i’ll be in his place in minutes and asked him to be ready.. Thank God he was ready to leave when i reached his place.. Then myself and Cletus went to THE DONUTS ๐Ÿ˜€ and got that yummy chocolate truffle cake ready ๐Ÿ™‚ :).. Adhukulla paala pona Rajeev kept ringing asking if i am ready and he’ll pick me in his all new car, and me being such an ottavai, i told him that i’ll come to cletus’s place, ๐Ÿ˜ฎ before i finished that line i told myself! ‘ ooh abi stop blabering!! ‘ Well, somehow i managed it like i wanted to meet uncle and aunty ( Cletus’s parents) and convey my wishes for their 25th anniversary ๐Ÿ™‚ (how smart!! lol!) and so i’ll come to his place and then give him a ring.. Myself and cletus proceeded with our shopping and after so many confusions got his card and gift ready! ๐Ÿ™‚ happa!! atlast we have done with it!! and drove back to cletus’s place..Being the asthana Writer of the gang, i did with all the writings to be done in the card and the wrappers before Rajeev reached Cletus’s place..

Everyone gathered in Cletus’s place and from there we proceeded to Jenny’s for lunch.. Well for once!! A surprise worked out without the usual sodhapals and Abdul thanks a lot!!! Till the last minute i was worried if you’ll olarify things to Rajeev! ๐Ÿ˜€ Thank God You Did not!! ๐Ÿ˜‰ I had a real good time with you all!! Specially ‘Chuch’ you were the target today, thanks da for saving my head :D.. “BELATED BIRTHDAY WISHES DA ANNA, WE ALL LOVE YOU” :)..

You’ll board ship in a week’s time, and i’ll start missing you again!! Bon voyage! Get back soon ( Before i get committed ๐Ÿ˜› )..


Today is 21st May??!! Yeah.. My onlyย  little elder son’s (Adopted ofcourse!!) Birthday!! :)..

Happy birthday my dear Son.. You are the first male friend of mine in CIT.. You’ve been there whenever i needed some reliable source of ???!!! Watever!! Thanks a lot for being such a patient listener, even at the middle of nights! :).. May God shower his choicest blessings on U!! :).. Have a blast!!

With loads of love,

Your Little Mamma :)..

Count-down Tag!!

10 things you wish you could say to people right now(dont list the names)

* I love you.. love u loads!! ๐Ÿ™‚

* I miss you.. Miss u very badly!! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

* Everything happens for a reason..

* Pre-Job-Era is the best part of life, jus enjoy it.. Later do not repent for your past..

* Hug u!!

* I do not really know if I had taken things in a wrong way or the mistake is yours. Whatever it is, your silence is hurting me a lot!! Let us forget the past and be normal and not formal..

* U work all through the day unlike-me.. But still u do not get tired of getting my midnight snacks?? Luv u loads!! Thank you!! ๐Ÿ™‚

* You never get tired at all?? I know am pestering you a lot.. But whenever I get bored You are there for me.. Thank you!! ๐Ÿ™‚

* One Life.. Live it completely!! In a way that you like..

* Can you take me for a drive in L&T road? Please!!

9 things about yourself

* I love everyone in my life!!

* You can find me so-active in the night and sleepy sleepy in the mornings.. (P.S: Iโ€™m Single!!)

* My weight bothers me a LOT! But I can never resist chocolates :(.. Rather Iโ€™ll eat one and walk/jog 10 minutes extra..

* I am so crazy about Surya!! ๐Ÿ˜€

* I love my pet, my laptop, my bike and my mobile.. Really hard for me to survive without them!

* Iโ€™m a Leonian!!

* I re-read my mails, messages, scraps, chats whatever, when I feel ultimately bored and that gives me immense pleasure ๐Ÿ™‚

* I just love the way I am.. I love my Life!! ๐Ÿ™‚

* Long long ago so long ago very long ago, there was a silent girl called Abi.. Now!! I think I zip my mouth only when I sleep ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

8 ways to win your heart

*8 ways?? Sorry there is only option where you could not make a choice! True love and care!! ๐Ÿ™‚

7 things that cross your mind a lot

* When will mom get back home? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

* Why does my inbox gets full every now and then? Which one to delete? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

* Where are YOU?? When will I ever get to know YOU?? ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

* What work does this stupid lady has? Why not she reply to my sms? ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

* When will I ever get my TCS call letter?

*When will Sound come?

*Why am I so very jobless?

6 things you wish you never did

*Miss anybody..

*Get emotionally attached..

*Being a part of 04SE (thatโ€™s how my class in identified in CIT)


*Get out of school life..

*Get hurt, mentally ..

5 Turn Offโ€™s

* Missing loved ones

* Being taken for granted

* Cornering

* Arguing

* Breaks in relationships!

4 Turn Onโ€™s

* Love!

* Hug from Amma..

* Chocolates..


3 things you want to do before you die

*Love someone truly/madly/deeply..

*Feel the motherhood

*Travel round the globe!

2 smileys you can associate with yourself



1 Confession

* Iโ€™m not perfect

Pass the tag to:

Kums, Sajjeev anna, Suganya ka..

There was a sweet little girl running 16, who nodded her head and got admitted into a 5 yr integrated M.Sc Software Engineering in a reputed intitution, as decided by her parents.. Thank God!! She did not deny the call for admission saying ‘i hated computers!’, On the day of her engineering councelling was her dad’s open heart surgery! And even if she had been there for b.e admission all that she’d have got in merit was a b.e in a dote-2 college.. So the only option left out to her would have been a b.a/b.sc..

She found her class to be the best among the first years in college.. She underwent the best of ragging sessions both by the senior guys and girls.. She found the best of friends.. She was happy about every little thing.. And there was a sudden shift in everything in an opposite direction.. well this topic wud never end if i start telling the whole 5 yrs story!!

Friends who did their 3 yr courses like b.a/b.sc/b.com completed their studies, they started working and some got married n became little mom’s too! Whenever it was a get together, alumni meet or someone’s wedding, everyone will have new topics to dicuss about their current phase of life.. But she kept the same words ringing.. “I am doing my M.Sc Software, I hate my class, I wish i finish my course soon, Oh God!! When will april 2009 ever come?? “.. And some common comments that came to her were ” Abi! Be happy that you are still a college student”, “Hey, innum evlo naaliki dhan college poren, padiknum, exams, internals lottu losuku nu suthuvae??”, “Hey kelavi agra varikkum M.Sc software dhana??”, “Abi arrear vechu vechu medhuva padichitu irukiya??” Grrr!! ๐Ÿ˜ก

Hurray!! Now that everything has come to an end!! she has completed her college..( ‘She’ ellam Abi dhan)

YEAH I HAVE EVEN COMPLETED MY COLLEGE.. ๐Ÿ™‚ I was so happy on my last day, the long awaited day!! And when my last semester results came i was even more happy thinking everything was over, and I AM A POST GRADUATE NOW!! ๐Ÿ™‚

This happiness did not last long!! Yeah.. I called my mom to convey my results.. “Oh is it abi!! Very Good.. So what next? An M.B.A?? M.S?? M.Phil or a Ph.d??? If you give a break for studies then its hard to study later dear, that too being a girl, after you get married its not that easy.. so decide soon..”, i jus said yes ma i’ll think about it.. And yeah am still in my decision making process ๐Ÿ˜€ย  and so it was the starting point of my confusions.. And once i got into confused state every topic confuses me now!! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

Even if parents don’t feel like am getting old enough to get married, neighbours/relatives/family-friends are always there with their own suggestions and advices!! ๐Ÿ˜ฆย  “Chandra, Abi ku alliance paaka start pantiya??” , “Abi how old are you?? Running 22 is it?? Chandra 23 la girls should get settled thats the right age.. Dont send her for higher studies.. Abi You get married get a child and later if you want to study you can proceed with it”, “Hey Chandra, they are looking for a gal for my cousin brother.. I suggest him for Abi, How about getting her horoscope to me?” Grrrr!!! I am really happy that you people care so much about my future.. But whenever such satements come to stage mom starts “Aama abi, letย  me get on the job.. We dont have much of time left.. ippo start panna epdiyum 1 year aidum..” Ssshhh!! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

All confusions apart!! Am just enjoying my Pre-Job era.. Life la this is the BEST part!! First it started like “I’m Bored”, “Life Sucks” and all such phrases.. But once i realised that these days will never come back in life.. I’ve changed my way of looking at this part of life.. I spend a loooooooot of time with my friends.. Hopefully! no one can now come and complaint that their messages, mails or calls weren’t acknowledged by me.. I had finished 6 fictions of sheldon and now happily reading “Other side of me”.. I’m happy about learning glass painting ๐Ÿ™‚ i actually was interested and did not find time for it all these days..I find a lot of time to walk,jog,walk-out and find out the possible ways to pull down,healthy ways ofcourse!! And I am so happy about my chennai trip.. I find myself happy about every little thing that people do for me :).. Am just loving each and every one in my life.. Luv u all! ๐Ÿ™‚ A BIG HUG to all!! ๐Ÿ™‚

So!! This part of life gets me a lot of time that i am able to read and get to know about many things.. A lot about life and people :)..Am loving it!! ๐Ÿ™‚

And sorry for this long long post!! I dint know wat to delete from this!!

Am here now!!

Hi All,

Found all the wordpress blogs attractive/interesting compared to the blogger.. Am still in the process of learning wordpress :).. will start publishing posts once am done with the learning, atleast the basic learning i need, to be here :).. well i tried an umpteen times to import ma blogger posts to this wordpress account but the google thing is not supporting me :(.. So!! With all your patience navigate to http://abinayahranganathan.blogspot.com to read my previous posts :)..

PS: Rev’s guess i’ve tried not to use my sms lingo ๐Ÿ™‚



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